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Make Your Dreams Come True – 4 Steps To Manifest Your Desires

Hello, my name is Kari Samuels. I am your intuitive counselor and happiness coach. And I am so excited for what we’re going to share today. I’m going to share with you how to make your dreams come true. The four essential steps you need to manifest your heart’s desires.

Now I need to tell you, I teach manifesting a lot different than a lot of people. Because most of what I see out there I think just gets people into a lot of trouble and a lot of traps. Then you’re doing all the vision boards, and you’re doing everything that you think you need to do. Then you’re like, “Why is nothing happening? Why am I stuck on this? Do I have a block? What is this?”

So what I want to share with you today is every step that you need to take. Because if you miss any one of these, it’s going to trip you up. And the other thing I want to share about how this is a little different than the other manifesting techniques you may know or law of attraction. I tend to disagree with a lot of the way it’s taught. Not just because it doesn’t always work, but because it’s sometimes a spiritual materialism. And let me explain what I mean by that.

Manifest

A lot of times, people are taught to attract or manifest material things. And it’s not to say that manifesting material things isn’t wonderful and can feel great. However, as you know, that’s not going to make you happy in and of itself. And the other thing is, you know your soul wants certain experiences for you. You were born for a reason. You were born to express your gifts, and you were born to learn certain spiritual lessons. And your soul is going to direct you. Your soul’s going to direct you towards doing that. And your intuition’s going to guide you toward manifesting your soul’s purpose and learning your spiritual lessons.

So sometimes, what we’re taught to manifest or what you can be trying to manifest is something that the ego wants rather than something that the soul wants. So before we get into these four steps, I want to briefly explain the difference.

Your soul is always wanting you to express your deepest desires, and the gifts that you have accumulated over many, many lifetimes. And first of all, that can bring up a lot of fears. So you can try to manifest something that you think it’s like a stop-gap measure, or you think is something that’s going to maybe be a more safe choice than what it is that you’re ultimately meant to do. And like I said, your intuition is always going to be guiding you.

Desire

So you can have ego desires that you think you want. An ego doesn’t mean selfish or conceited. Ego can be anything that’s not completely in alignment with your soul. It’s not just material things. I’ll give you an example.

So as many of you know, I am a psychic and an energy healer. And for many, many years, I did one on one readings. Now my heart’s desire is to teach. I manifested that. How awesome is that? But for many years … I still really, my heart’s desire was also to do readings with people. Yet I felt there was a bigger purpose for me, which was to teach more and more people. And I hope that you get to benefit from that.

I would often see people that let’s say I had a client that wanted to be an energy healer. And that was their passion, and they had these really unique gifts. Let’s say for example, they would think, “Well nobody’s going to like or accept that form of my gifts. So what I’m going to do is go to massage therapy school, become a massage therapist, spend years building up my clientele as a massage therapist. And then maybe sneak it in there that I do energy healing.”

Dream Big

So that is a long way around. So you could be having, let’s say you’re that person and you could be having these intentions that I want to build my massage practice or I want to find the right school. When really, your ultimate desire, your ultimate gifts and your ultimate dream, you’re given that dream because that’s what you’re born to do.

So it’s like taking a very circuitous route. That’s what I mean the ego isn’t always like conceited or greedy. It may just be out of fear that you’re afraid to ask or want what you really want. You’re afraid of it because you think, “Well, there’s no place for it,” or, “That’s impossible.”

So before we start out with these four steps, I want to encourage you to dream big and dream from your heart. Your heart is what is connecting spirit and matter. Your heart is that intermediary. And you know, when I was doing readings for people. Let’s say there are people who were very tuned in and they had vision boards, and they did all these things. I would clairvoyantly see … I would sometimes see an image of these people who are vision board people. And I would sometimes see images of them even meditating or whatever, but pictures moving around their mind. As just like a visualization, but it was never in their heart. So that’s how my guides would clairvoyantly show me that someone was visualizing something that wasn’t connected to their heart.

Law Of Attraction

And I want to explain something to you. Your spirit guides, and your angels, and your divine team are always communicating with you, teaching you, showing you what your next steps are. They’re showing you where you’re meant to go. And they are guiding you toward expressing those greatest gifts that are inside of you as well as your spiritual lessons. They’re always guiding you. That’s why they’re called spirit guides, right?

So when you’re given a dream, when you’re given a heart’s desire. You know that image that won’t go away of you doing something or experiencing something? When you have that, or when you have a really, really strong desire, that’s because that is something inside of you. That’s an intuition telling you that that’s what you need to pursue. So don’t take a safe route. Of course be, what do you call that? Not an educated risk, a calculated risk.

So take calculated risks? But take those risks because if you have a desire in your heart or a dream that’s inside of you, it’s given to you by spirit. Telling you this is where we’re taking you, this is where you’re headed. Don’t give up on that, and don’t take these routes that are going to take you to other places that you think are safer because it’s actually more safe for you to do what’s in your heart.

Believe In Yourself

And this is when the law of attraction really works. When you’re in alignment with your soul’s purpose, when you’re doing what you were born to do. That’s when the doors open for you. And when you are doing something that isn’t really what’s best for you, or you think it is, but it’s not really the route to take.

This is when they say rejection is God’s protection because this is the universe’s way of, it’s like you know that game Marco Polo, hotter, warmer, colder? It’s just the universe talking to you in a fun and delightful way. It may be confusing at the time. Yet I want to remind you that if you’re coming against closed doors, is because you’re not really giving into your dream. You’re not really allowing it and taking those steps to make it happen.

So that’s when the law of attraction works for you is when you’re doing what you’re born to do and what that dream is, that your guides are showing you through your energy, through your heart, through those images, and those feelings. That’s a gift. And that’s a gift of showing you where you’re meant to be.

So believe in yourself and believe in your dreams because your guides, and angels, and celestial support team is with you making it happen. Otherwise you wouldn’t have been given that dream. Okay?

Feel Your Way Through It

And it doesn’t matter if it’s a soulmate, a home, an experience. Whatever that is, you’re meant to have it if you want it. In some form, and it may take a form different than what you think you want. Yet in pursuing it, in taking those steps toward that dream. Even if you change your mind, and you might be changing your mind right now about what you thought your dreams were. I can almost guarantee you are, because that’s what the creative process is. It’s kind of messy. It’s like I’m going to try this. I’m going to try this. I’m going to feel my way through it.

So feel your way through your experiences. Don’t just have this idea in your head about what you think you want. You have to constantly be tuning into your heart to ask yourself, does this feel right? Am I still enjoying this? Is the universe showing me that I’m on the right path? So pay attention. Pay attention to your body, pay attention to your heart. Pay attention to the clues around you.

Four Steps To Manifest Your Desires

So with that being said, I’d like to share with you these four essential steps. Now what we’re going to do now, I’m going to show you what they are. That I will be doing. I am going to be showing you what they are. What I’m not going to be doing is taking the time for you to go through all of these. Some of these take some meditation or reflection, some time for you to visualize or experience. So you’ll know what I mean when we do these.

So I encourage you, if you find these helpful, to go back. You can write them down, and then do these explorations, these actions in your own time. So let’s go through them right now.

Step One To Manifest Your Desires

So the first step toward manifesting your heart’s desire, or actually before the first step. You know what? Getting ready to manifest your heart’s desire. Let’s just do this. You have to be in your heart. Again, it’s not a mental process. This isn’t about what you think. So to make sure you’re manifesting your heart’s desire, get into your heart. So we can do that together right now. Okay?

So close your eyes. Unless you’re driving, close your eyes. And ground your energy to the earth. That’s right. You can feel grounding core from the base of your spine, anchoring to the core of the earth. And you can feel roots that sink deep into the earth from your feet, you’re connected to the earth. And the earth is the manifestation plane. So it’s always very important to be connected to the earth.

Now bring your mind into your heart. Imagine that your heart is your mind. Your heart has your consciousness. So really feel the energy in your heart. Feel your heart. So bring your awareness there. And as you do, ask yourself, “What do I really, really want?” You may have one particular area that you want to focus on. So really get into your heart as you ask yourself, “What do I really want?” Okay. Now that you are in your heart, we can focus on the four steps.

Meditate

And again, you know you can ask about one thing or just in general. You can ask about a feeling you want to experience. Maybe you want to focus on health, so that you want to feel vibrant, and radiant, and healthy, and flexible, and strong. Or maybe you want a soulmate so that you have someone to share all your love with. Maybe you want your dream home so that you can really feel expansive, and safe, and protected.

So as you go into your heart and you ask yourself what you want, ask yourself what you want to feel when you do that. These are some preliminary steps before our fourth steps. They’re very important.

So now that you know what you want, now that you’re really focusing on your heart’s desire, not your brain denier, but your heart’s desire. So the first step … Again, you may want to go back to these and really explore them at length, right? We could be here for a long time if we do this together in real time, but I want to make sure you have these.

The first step is to imagine it. Looking at something on a vision board definitely helps you imagine it, but it’s really, really helpful to actively get your third eye, your imagination, your right brain involved. Because if you imagine it, you can create it.

Imagine It

Now the one thing I’ve learned too from doing so many readings, thousands of readings. Is that if you can’t imagine it … sometimes you can say, “I can’t imagine having a soulmate,” or, “I can’t imagine like having a job that I love,” because you’re so far away from it. Well first of all, change your language about that.

Now from doing readings, one of the things I realize is sometimes if you really can’t picture something, then it may be sometimes not meant to happen. You want to explore what it is that you can conjure, that does give you something for your imagination to delight in. You really want to delight in your imagination about this. And when you imagine something, don’t be realistic. You know? I mean you can, you want real life things in there. You want to imagine what you hear and what you see, and what you taste.

I am very [inaudible 00:16:05], I’m very clairaudient, which means I have super sensitive ears, like an inner ear, a psychic ear. And when I imagine something, I hear it even more than I see it sometimes. And if I’m imagining my home, I can hear water. A water fountain, and chimes, and birds singing. To me that is delightful.

Visualize It

Let’s say you’re imagining yourself on a date with your soulmate or whatever. Maybe you visualize yourself on a beach or in a restaurant. You can hear the waves, you can smell. Not if you’re in a restaurant, but let’s say you’re on the beach. You can smell the ocean, you can hear the seagulls, you can hear people laughing in the background. You can feel what that’s like on your face. As you’re imagining it, bring in as many senses as you can and delight in it. If it’s not delightful for you, either you are limiting yourself in some ways, or it’s not the right thing for you. It’s not the right choice for you. So this is where we get to play around. Play around with exploring, play around with your imagination. If you can imagine it, you can create it.

So don’t allow yourself not to imagine what you really, really, really, really want. Some people think, “I don’t even want to think about what I really want because I can’t have it.” I mean come on, that way you’re limiting yourself. So imagine it in such a way that you are delighting in it. So that is step one.

Step Two To Manifest Your Desires

Step two is to feel it. So when you’re imagining, what you can do is you can imagine this. So instead of imagining it as if it’s some kind of future, when you imagine, imagine it as if it’s happening right now. Because your body doesn’t know the difference between memory, imagination, or any of that. So if you’re imagining something or thinking about something, it actually thinks it’s the present moment. That’s why you shouldn’t dwell on your past so much. You can heal your past, but you don’t want to dwell on it because you don’t want to bring up those feelings.

Anytime you’re imagining something, you’re feeling something. This is actually how the law of attraction is most effective. It’s not thinking. A lot of what the angels, the archangels have taught me about manifesting the life you desire. If you raise your energy to the vibration of love, you manifest everything that you desire. So you can manifest people in your life that adore you and that you love. And you can manifest abundance, and prosperity, and happiness, because you’re raising your energy to the vibration of love. You always want to feel good feelings.

For instance, let’s say you’re not even imagining something. Let’s say you’re working on your career. And in the process, you’re frustrated, you’re anxious, you’re angry, you’re whatever it is. You’re stressed the whole time. That’s the energy that you’re bringing into the future. If you’re trying to create a career where you have more ease, and flow, and joy, and you’re stressing every moment of the way, those cumulative present moments are what you’re doing to create the future. You want to feel what you want to feel as you’re creating it, if that makes sense.

Imagine

Like your present, you can conjure up feelings, feel good feelings just by imagining something. The more you imagine something and the more you create feel good feelings in every day of your life, that’s when you create the future that you want. It’s really about raising your vibration every single day. As you find yourself dipping into lower emotions or vibrations, really lift yourself into … Change the channel. Breathe love into your energy field. You can call upon your angels to lift your spirit. Or you can do a meditation. You can change your thoughts so then you’re not dwelling on something. Whatever that is, change the channel so that you’re feeling good.

In this process where you’re imagining your potential future, you want to imagine it as if you’re experiencing it right now. The most important thing is to feel what you’re feeling. So as you’re imagining it, you can say out loud even, “I feel exuberant. I feel joyful and I feel loved. I feel appreciated.” Whatever that is that you want, feel it. If you’re not feeling it, don’t strain. Just drop into your heart and ask for the energy of that emotion that you want to feel. That’s more important than anything right there is feeling it, creating those feel good feelings.

Because it’s your aura, that goes into your aura. It’s not just in your brain right here. That goes into your energy field, that pulses out to the universe, and that comes right back to you. That’s how you send messages to the universe. Because when you think of something, you’re feeling it and it’s your feelings. So make sure you’re feeling as you’re experiencing and you’re feeling feel good feelings.

Two Energies

So as you’re experiencing that, you can say, “I am,” or, “I feel.” In the present moment, and make sure you’re doing that. Now a lot of times when people do that, they say what they don’t want to feel anymore. They say something like, “I don’t feel stressed, or I don’t feel this.” Instead of what you don’t want to feel, really, really, really focus on what you want to feel. You want to feel. Then say that in the present moment. So instead of saying, “I don’t feel stressed,” you say, “I feel relaxed. I feel at ease.” Do you feel the difference in those two energies? So in the present moment. And then your body really believes that is your reality right now. Guess what? Then it is, and you can create those feel good feelings any time.

So you want to align to those feel good feelings all the time. Once you recognize what those are, you want to conjure those as much as possible. And then when you feel you’re shifting from those feelings, find a way to align with those again. All about the feelings. You want to pulse those out into the universe.

Step Three To Manifest Your Desires

So now that you can see what it is that you desire and experiencing it and feel it. And feel the feelings and align with those feelings, the third step is to take inspired action. Now I say inspired because you want to take action that aligns with your highest vision.

Again, remember I told you about the person that wants to be an energy healer and they make all these decisions to align with the safer choice to get to what they really want? Ask Your guides, ask your higher self, ask your heart. What one step can I take today to get me closer to that goal? You don’t need to know how to get from A to Z. Journey of 1,000 miles starts with the first step beneath your feet, right? Just one step towards that vision, and make sure you’re aligning your feelings with that as you’re taking those actions.

And you have to take action. Now I want to remind you. What you are meant to do that will give you your heart’s desire is often going to bring up the biggest fears in you. That’s part of life’s process. And if you weren’t afraid, then you already have that manifested. So in the process of taking you toward your goals and your intentions, is actually healing in a big way. It’s stretching you. It’s expanding you. That’s really prosperity, right? The more expansive you can be and experience life, then you expand every area of your life. How joyful is that? So take inspired action toward where you want to go, just a little bit if you want every single day.

Feel The Joy

I’m doing these Facebook lives here with you now. This is not a natural fit for an introvert. I love sharing this information with you. You know, there’s a lot of … We’re humans, right? So it’s like the more I do it now when I come on here with you, I’m so excited, right? Instead of being nervous about the technology or however everything’s going to come out of my mouth or whatever. And it becomes joyful. But I had to move through something to get here and in.

By doing so, I get to share my heart’s desires with you and fulfill my life purpose. And whenever you are doing that, you are uplifting and inspiring everyone around you because you’re sharing your light. It’s going to be scary, some of the steps you take. But please, please, take a chance on yourself. The more you do it, the more comfortable you get and then you’ll feel joy from doing this.

I’m so proud of you already because I know you’re going to do this. And you know what? Write down below in the comments below one step that you’re going to take towards your vision, towards your dreams. Write it down so we can all support each other.

Step Four To Manifest Your Desires

Okay. Now the fourth step, and this is probably the most overlooked step. And it is so important. You can imagine, you can visualize, you can do all this. And oftentimes, you don’t expect it. So the fourth step is to expect it.

So I want you to ask yourself, really go into your body and tune into your body. You’ll see I do this almost all the time. Whenever I’m sharing something like this, I always ask you to drop into your heart and talk to your body.

So ask yourself, what do I expect to happen? I know what I want to happen. What do I expect to happen? Because if you haven’t experienced something, let’s say you’re wanting your soulmate. Your heart’s desires is to have your soulmate, but you’ve had disappointments in love. You’ll most likely expect disappointments in love. Now of course the visualization process with the feeling process is going to change those neural networks, which is wonderful. But the more conscious you can be about this, the easier it is to manifest, right? So ask yourself, what do I expect?

Expect It

And notice if there’s fear, like something clinches in your body. Notice what happens to you. So notice anything in your body when you say that to yourself. And simply any tension, just breathe light into it and let it go. Okay? And as you do that, say to yourself, “I expect.” So let’s say you’re promoting a product or a service. “I expect people to love what I’m doing. I expect to have abundance and I expect to be respected. To find people who love me, to find that special person.” Whatever it is, “I expect it. I know it’s here.”

So that one shift will change everything for you. And that is the one thing that I’ve seen most people really don’t pay attention to and that can often be the thing that trips you up.

So I know that if you practice these four steps, they’re simple. And if you practice these, you do these, your life can and will change dramatically.

So I hope I’ve helped you. Now I have so many more resources for you that I’m going to be sharing throughout the year. So make sure that you are subscribed to my channel. Make sure you’re subscribed to my newsletter because I have so much to share with you. You can find that at karisamuels.com. So make sure you’re signed up with me because we’re just getting started here. There’s so much more I want to share with you.

Resources

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Make Your Dreams Come True – 4 Steps To Manifest Your Desires