5 Secrets To A Successful Romance
Love and romance. Beneath all your goals, that’s what drives you.
It’s the stuff that dreams are made of. The fantasy usually goes like this: You meet someone wildly attractive during a chance encounter; it’s love at first sight. You recognize this person as your soul mate, you “know” they’re the one, and the two of you live happily ever after.
It’s what we are programmed to believe since the moment we are born. All of our movies, fairy tales and advertising depict romance this way.
And yet for many, this dream doesn’t come true.
Either you attract the wrong kind of person over and over again, or you just can’t find someone worth dating. Or you’re in a committed relationship and it seems like more trouble than it’s worth. Just maybe you are fortunate enough to be with your soul mate, in a joyful mutually supportive relationship. (And yay for you for showing everyone it IS possible!)
A blissful romantic relationship is not only possible for you, it’s your birthright. EVERYONE on this planet can find true love that lasts and gets better every day.
No matter where you are on your relationship journey, there’s always more love available for you. The greater your capacity to give and receive love, the more love you will attract into your life. You can attract romance.
Five essential steps to magnetize love and attract romance:
If you want to attract romance and be in a passionate relationship you must be passionate about your life! Do you always play it safe in your career? Do you stick to your routine instead of trying something new and exciting? You can attract a loving relationship by being passionate about your life. If you do things every day that make you feel exhilarated you will become irresistible to other people.
Allow yourself to be supported
Do you pride yourself on being strong and independent? Are you the one everyone counts on but too “together” to ask for help? If so, what you’re doing is telling the Universe (and subsequently other people) that you’re fine by yourself. If you really want to let someone else into your life, you have to allow yourself to accept what they have to offer.
Stop rescuing other people
If you’re a sensitive person, you’re going to want to help other people. Oftentimes, other people’s wounds can be appealing because it can make you feel safe and understood. You need to ask yourself if the people in your life are offering you something in return, or are just fostering your “need to be needed”. Make sure you love people for who they are NOW, not who you want them to be.
Don’t seek to be rescued
If you want a truly healthy relationship, that means that both people are happy independently and you mutually support each other. If you are seeking someone to save you from working hard, struggling financially or feeling bad about yourself, there will only be resentments and compromises in the long run. Love yourself fully now and you will attract people who reflect that for you.
Play every day
If you spend all your day working and leave no time or energy for anything fun, you’ll feel isolated, frustrated and alone. If you make time for activities you enjoy you’ll be waaaay more productive, have a positive aura that attracts opportunities and connect with others in joyful ways. Isn’t that way more awesome than being slumped over a computer all day?
All of these elements are necessary for you to be in a happy, healthy romantic relationship. The good news is you’re in control of the choices you make. When you choose love, love will always find you!